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Cordially,
Carl Hammerschlag

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Smarts With Hearts: Thanks for reminding us to use heart to effectively utilize smarts. My wife and I have a 3 year old son, with one more on the way. We took the amnio the first time without considering what we would do with such information. Believing ourselves to be open to pro-choice potential, but without actual experience, a false positive on a downs syndrome screening test launched us down that path. After experiencing his healthy birth and wondering at this beautifully made baby, our views on the subject have changed. We are taking 2nd level ultrasound to understand the new babies health risks, may utilize amnio if there are further questions, but would not dream of terminating. We are committed to helping both sons grow to their potential, regardless the possible hardships. The technology that we have today can be used for good, if one approaches it thoughtfully. Three cheers for Heather! Thank God for heart.
Mike
USA - Tuesday, July 15, 2003 at 18:53:09 (EDT)

Smarts with Hearts: Yes! Yes! Our heartless smarts are killing us! There is a point, right smack dab in the center of our hearts, where (when we're there & aware that we're there) we feel connected with all the rest of life. I can tell when I'm there when I start to flipflop back&forth; between tears & laughter. I get a glimpse of how wee I am in relation to our awesome spinning planet & all the life upon it. We're all guests here. (We certainly aren't here forever!) Our gratitude should be so boundless that we readily admit to our common short-comings: faulty preceptions, faulty memories, faulty judgements, our inability to accurately predict the future. Hey, we're a (marvelous) mess! But we can still make every effort to be&do; our very best to be humble & flexible & as ready to forgive others as we are ready to seek forgiveness for all the errors of our ways. Three cheers for Harriet!
Rex
Canada - Monday, July 14, 2003 at 22:00:06 (EDT)

Paradise Lost: I just read about your recent trip to my newly "adopted" homeland of the past 18 years. I was certainly pleased of the way your experience was remidied by a fellow Mainer. The attitude of "it's not my responsibility due to legal ramifications" crapola perpetuated by our society leads to the alienation of us all. Old fashion kindness still abounds!
David
USA - Tuesday, July 08, 2003 at 11:17:16 (EDT)

Paradise Lost: I felt that I was able to truly spend a few moments in Maine, especially looking at the photos. Your words and photos have helped me positively "jump start" my work week. I appreciate you.
Janis
OK USA - Monday, July 07, 2003 at 14:58:42 (EDT)

Paradise Lost: Rejoice in the wonder of all life, again I say, "Rejoice!"
Rex
Canada - Sunday, July 06, 2003 at 18:28:29 (EDT)

Paradise Lost: You had the opportunity to Fly-fish for Arctic Char and Brook Trout on those fantastic Maine rivers but opted to fish for Bass on crank baits ?
David
USA - Sunday, July 06, 2003 at 18:23:00 (EDT)

Paradise Lost: Thank you so much for the latest Schlagbyte! Love your stories and this one, naturally, is great. As a matter of fact, I even printed out a picture of you standing by the Kayak sign, so next time I get another Byte, I can look up and see my favorite doctor! An 83 year old ardent admirer.......thanks for everything.
Ruth
USA - Sunday, July 06, 2003 at 18:18:55 (EDT)

Human Tragedy: I must write to tell you how powerful the byte about the bishop in Phoenix was. I copied it and sent it to all the residents as a generalized message about morality and legalisms.... We often do what is right for the patient and have it misinterpreted by a legal twist, conversely we can fail to do what is right for fear of the same twist. An interesting conundrum that can almost always be remedied by doing what is right in our own individual opinion. We might be guilty of making a bad judgement, but if done in the context of doing what we individually feel it right, no legal twisting can make it wrong. In such an instance we can always get up in the morning and face the bathroom mirror with respect and some modicum of dignity....then strive to make better judgements the next time. Thank you for reminding us of that....
Lyle
USA - Wednesday, July 02, 2003 at 14:40:45 (EDT)

Yes, and Hurray for lemonade around the world. It is the voice of healing. Another crazy sidebite: I am not sure where, but I read about neighbors complaining about a child selling lemonaide. The police came in, issues a citation of sorts and the child had to get a license to sell the delicious substance. Have we truly become a society of litigious nutcases who cannot tolerate the splendid minds of children? It scares me to the bone. Thank God for Alexandra. May she continue to squeeze forever... Blessings always, Sistah J
Sistah J
USA - Monday, June 30, 2003 at 01:15:07 (EDT)

Human Tragedy: Thank you for describing how I have been feeling this past week about Bishop O'Brien. I am a member of Diocese of Phoenix and I have two brothers who were sexually abused by priests (not in the Diocese of Phoenix). I have questioned my faith, the trust I have in religious leaders (my trust in governmental leaders has been pessimistic for a longtime) and the choices we make as God-loving people. One thing for sure is my belief in God's love for me has never been shaken. And with this I wipe away the tears I have shed, walk with my head high and say proudly "I am a precious child of God."
Denise
USA - Monday, June 23, 2003 at 20:05:41 (EDT)

Human Tragedy: Perhaps the current Justice (Just Us?) System is partly to blame. It fails to recognize that we all make mistakes & it also makes it difficult for us to admit our mistakes because it threatens punishment rather than facilitating restoration & reform. An immoral 'justice' system can't force moral behavior. Some of our First Nations people make every effort to help offenders to become useful community members again. Even people who make mistakes (that's all of us) need respect. Let's abandon our arrogance & humbly help each other become Self-directed, Effective, Empowering, Keen, Earnest, Responsible (SEEKER) citizens of the world!
Rex
USA - Monday, June 23, 2003 at 15:51:12 (EDT)

Human Tragedy: We are a country built on great principles. One of these, "In God We Trust", is engraved on our money as a sign of our dedication and involvement in a higher power. Be it Christian, Hindu, Jewish, Moslem, or other community believing in the power of faith in something larger than ourselves, we have all shared a similar value structure in this country. Whether other people chose to ignore this value system for their own expediency, or not, we must not let our own hearts be swayed from our beliefs in what is right and what is wrong. It is each human being looking into their hearts to find the right path, that has kept us strong and viable as a culture. We must make a renewed effort to maintain our own faith and dignity in the face of the outrageous behavior we are seeing around us. Ultimately, our own attitudes and behavior are the only things of meaning over which we have control. Choose to exercise that control, every minute of every day. Soon, the events of the early 2000's will be replaced by a new insight and focus on simply doing the right thing. Together, we can change the world.
Denese
USA - Monday, June 23, 2003 at 13:39:26 (EDT)

Human Tragedy: We are losing our way as a nation. If we do not find a way to return to a moral path, I believe that our society will cease to function. Our leaders care nothing for right or wrong, only for money and power. We are teaching our young people that anything is alright if it gets you what you want. There are those of us who believe differently; we must stand up and be heard. We must provide for the less fortunate, accept differences in race, religion, ethnic origin and lifestyle, protect the environment, accept the consequences of our own actions and learn to protect ourselves and each other.
Wes
USA - Monday, June 23, 2003 at 13:37:51 (EDT)

Human Tragedy: Well said. It was especially important to note that if he could do this any one of us can. We all have it in us. So it is about becoming more aware of "this" in each of us, so that it doesn't dominate our inner ethics.
Ilene
USA - Monday, June 23, 2003 at 13:35:55 (EDT)

Human Tragedy: going through a divorce now, going past the 2-year mark, proves the point...moral fiber?????? what is that???? that should be taught in law 101 and over and over again until the lawyers understand about life, and people and not their wallets.....
Mar
USA - Monday, June 23, 2003 at 13:34:05 (EDT)

Chicken Little: Idealism never dies, like the love that sustains our life force, it is the blood of our spirit whose energy can and will be harnessed by creative people anywhere. Keep up the good work.....
Lyle
USA - Monday, June 09, 2003 at 23:16:40 (EDT)

Chicken Little: Amen!!! You hit the nail on the head!!!
Ken
USA - Monday, June 09, 2003 at 13:18:46 (EDT)

Chicken Little: You got it! Right on!!!
Gail
USA - Monday, June 09, 2003 at 13:17:18 (EDT)

Mrs. Gulley: sorry it took me so long to react to your email - was on vacation last week. What you sent brought tears to my eyes. I have visited Pappas once and, believe me, it's no picnic. Those folks do phenomenal work and provide a priceless service to homeless families. Thanks so much for sharing. I have had the privilege of hearing Carl Hammerschlag speak; he has a way of cutting through all the crap and getting to the heart of what really counts in life from both a personal and a universal perspective. If you have never had the opportunity to hear him and see him coming around, try attend.
Bobbie
USA - Monday, June 09, 2003 at 13:07:51 (EDT)

Chicken Little: Yep == this is very good. Thanks.
Bruce
USA - Monday, June 09, 2003 at 12:56:48 (EDT)

Mrs. Gulley: I find your columns constructive and uplifting, but in this case I believe you have misunderstood the context and implication of the story, and the political and media activity that is swirling around it. There is much to celebrate in Mrs. Gulley's work. And it is certainly worthwhile celebrate and honor the dedication and rich humanity of a gifted and generous benefactor like Mrs. Gulley. However even a saint isn't necessarily an astute or competent policy analyst, and eveb a saint's homespun homilies often, when exploited by malevolent and disingenuous political operatives - do considerable damage. Your column "Mrs. Gulley" notes that: "In 2001, the school came under fire in Washington D.C. for segregating homeless children from their public school peers. Mrs. Gulley, spoke up and opened her door to a parade of dignitaries, including President Bush and Secretary of Education, Rob Paige. She appeared on Good Morning America, and on the cover of Education Week. In the end, Congress allowed The Pappas School to remain open and keep its federal funding." Sadly, Mrs. Gulley appears to have naively allowing enemies of mainstreaming, inclusion and integration in public education to parade her about as their political "poster child." Perhaps Mrs. Gulley's local school district wasn't meeting these childrens' need. If she filled that gap, and disregarded "red tape" in the process, she is to be commended. However that is not a valid reason for her, or youm or Good Morning America, or any other principled educator or journalist to dismiss the entire precept of school integration as inherently wrong-headed. I am CERTAIN this indirect attack on mainstreaming was the motive for Bush - of all people - to move on Mrs. Gulley's situation. Or perhaps Bush was merely a stooge with regard to this issue, and the regressive motive was held by one of the extreme ideologues who surrounds him, and from whom he slavishly takes direction. Bush: The malefactor who just decimated national education funding and other social services, and then siphoned off a $300 Billion gravy trough for the wealthiest 1% of the US population -- people of his own social class, his backers, and notably his own family and their friends. Bush's active involvement alone was enough of a red flag to notify you of the need look VERY long, VERY hard and VERY skeptically at this story for hidden implications. Or if you lacked sufficient time for that inquiry, it would have been prudent for you to pass over this story, and look for some other compelling education story that wasn't so suspect. What needs to happen in situations like this was for informed and committed education professionals who fully appreciate the pitfalls of social segregation and stigma, and who also recognize the countervailing need for the kind of special nurturance a teacher like Mrs. Gulley can provide, to come up with a policy interpretation that sustained the valid aspects of both "sides" to the "controversy." THEN - those enlightened persons needed to step forward with a principled position and preempt sensationalizing, spin-doctoring by cynical right-wing cabalists like Bush and his henchvolk. I have worked as an education reform advocate. Based on that experience, I believe such alternative, genuinely postive options were almost certainly pursued, and that relevant commentary was could have been found without inordinate digging. Unfortunately, however, by uncritically passing along the sentamentalized agit-prop of Bush regime operatives, I suspect you have implanted powerfully misleading imagery and unstated emotional assumptions in the minds of many of your readers. Please be cautious whenever you find yourself tempted to pick up and run with a story which has been defined and packaged by conservative ideologues. Such material is almost invariably tailored to invidiously indoctrinate readers, to harden invalid "mainstream" cultural biases, and for other socially injurious purposes. Thanks for considering these points. Please contiue to send me the Weekly Schlag Byte.
Mat
USA - Monday, June 02, 2003 at 17:46:49 (EDT)

Mrs. Gulley: And thanks to those rare species in the elementary schools who are" God's Grandpa's" I think we had one this year and I know I had one my 5th grade year
Amy
USA - Monday, June 02, 2003 at 14:26:34 (EDT)

Mrs. Gulley Great "byte". Being the son of a teacher (my mother taught juniors and seniors for 36 years), I will always have a soft spot in my heart for educators.
Greg
USA - Monday, June 02, 2003 at 13:29:27 (EDT)

Mrs. Gulley: Thank you for sharing "Mrs. gulley" with me it sure brought back wonderful memories of the teacher that helped me get through a tough time in school.
Jackie
USA - Monday, June 02, 2003 at 13:28:31 (EDT)

Mrs. Gulley: Throughout my life there have been teachers along the way, not just one, but many that have been there just at the critical part of my life. Each one in their own way made a difference that has contributed to the person I am. You too, are a teacher, impacting the lives of many, more importantly to me, my own. Thank you.
Jodi
USA - Sunday, June 01, 2003 at 21:17:02 (EDT)

Remember the Weaver: Just wanted to let you know your words about John, the weaver, were very inspiring.I copied for future reflection, with attribution, the statement about "inner experience : "At this level of inner experience there is no difference between the concept of creativity, discovery, inspiration or revelation. Art is a channeled expression to the divine." Writing is my art...the expression of which I've stoically suppressed for years not knowing how to balance between what I felt I "should" do (working as a single parent to support my family) and I what I need do--plumb the depths of my soul--to write. Your words provided a serendipitous catharsis evoking tears and resolution that it's high time that I begin to "channel my inner experience".
Karen
USA - Sunday, June 01, 2003 at 14:02:33 (EDT)

Remember the Weaver: What a wonderful imprint/memory this friend has left you with. I, too, lost a very dear person at a very young age...my father died at 59 years old...he, too, left me with wonderful memories and a zest for living that I > would of not had had it not been for a very similar experience.
Theresa
USA - Tuesday, May 27, 2003 at 18:53:42 (EDT)

Remember the Weavers: Somehow, I always felt different from others in that I have not been able to sell my craft. I always "gift" them to friends and those in need. Wondered if there was something wrong with me years ago. This byte explained it so well. When what I create is done so with love and spirit, it is part of me -- my inner self. To sell would be like prostituting myself. It is not an artform any longer -- but a spiritual experience in nature. Thank you for sharing your love for John with the world -- it was, obviously, also a spiritual experience.
Earla
USA - Tuesday, May 27, 2003 at 12:54:31 (EDT)

Remember the Weaver: Thank you for "sharing" John's story. Chimayo weaver Canto (long since gone but leaving his spirit in many rugs for the rest of us) will trade stories with John wherever they are now.
Barbara
USA - Tuesday, May 27, 2003 at 10:42:02 (EDT)

Remember the Weaver: > Thank you, that is a wonderful story!!!!!!!
Yanker
USA - Monday, May 26, 2003 at 13:58:58 (EDT)

Remember the Weavers: I would say John was not a religious man, he was a spiritual man- and thank God for it! Religion is man's idea of God, Spirit is God in us. > May your friend rest in Peace.
Helen
USA - Monday, May 26, 2003 at 00:43:16 (EDT)

Remember the Weavers: Very sweet piece. This week I too joined with others in memory and celebration of a friends life. Isn't it profound to be a part of such a gathering? Thank you.
Delores
USA - Monday, May 26, 2003 at 00:41:31 (EDT)

Remember the Weavers: This was priceless. Thank you! > May you feel the weave of love you send out return and embrace you like a soft hug.
Suzan
USA - Monday, May 26, 2003 at 00:39:29 (EDT)

Remember the Weavers: You have known my brother for a very long time and we, his family appreciate you for helping him through some very hard times. I read your article for this week and had to respond with some of my own experiences, so here goes. We have a lot of silent weavers in Alaska. They say very little, but thru their crafts you can feel the love and feelings they put into each piece. I have been fortunate to experience the feeling of their spirit or souls in some of their pieces. You are right; they weave their souls or something in part of each accomplishment. I have a friend that is a high school student that was born with spinabifia and is in a wheel chair. She crochets afghans and sells them at the craft shows with me. Chelsea has put her soul and spirit in each afghan and when you wrap yourself in them on a cold evening all is right with the world. I look at a girl that is happy, giving, and goes about her life as though she is as normal as all of her other peers. She graduates this year and will be going to college in the fall. What a wonder, due to the pain she has endured all her young years. A couple of years ago I bought an eagle beaded tunic from an old native lady at a craft show and a year later I wanted the raven tunic to match (Raven and Eagle are part of the Tlingit clans' tradition) and I miraculously ran into her sister and told her the story of how I purchased the eagle and she said, "You must have the raven tunic, here,(as she reached down into a large tote bag she had on the floor and pull out another tunic) my sister completed this before she pass on." What are the odds of being at the right place at the right time and meeting her sister to collect the other part? That is the sprit of the Alaskan natives. To me they are quiet gentle people and to be accepted by them as a friend is an honor that they give to me. I enjoy your Schlagbytes, but this one really meant a lot to me. It reminded me of how we all should look a little deeper to see the person inside of others.
Paula
USA - Sunday, May 25, 2003 at 18:03:24 (EDT)

Baseball Cups: When I was a kid, getting ready to start playing little league baseball, my friends and I would hang out at a local sporting goods store (there weren't any malls in those days, nor mega-sports outlets).We would ogle the gigantic baseball gloves, the spike shoes (very dangerous), the medieval looking catcher's equipment, and the various jerseys, but, invariably, our attention, and braggadocios comments, would be focused on "the cup." That we could have gone swimming in it, was lost on us. But at some deeper than awareness level, it represented everything masculine and athletic. No, in those days, we didn't have to wear one (our society had not yet transmogrified itself into a continuing legal battleground), but we longed to...having no idea how uncomfortable or even dangerous they might be.
Michael
USA - Sunday, May 25, 2003 at 16:37:36 (EDT)

Remember the Weavers: Wonderful - thanks for sharing. Grace and blessings to you..
Joe
USA - Sunday, May 25, 2003 at 16:30:53 (EDT)

Baseball Cups: Is this what Jesu had in mind when he said, "My cup runneth over?"
Tom
USA - Thursday, May 22, 2003 at 12:48:21 (EDT)

Baseball Cups Thanks so very much for my laugh of the day!!
Shirley
USA - Tuesday, May 20, 2003 at 11:03:32 (EDT)

Baseball Cups > if you are familiar with Lewis Carol's Alice in Wonderland, you will know that this particular story was not written for children, but adults. The exchange of useless, absurd rules for the trial of Alice in the Queen's > court was a beautiful statement about man's obsession with dogma, and forgetting the simple idea of dealing with each situation as it's own unique case. > Scary, isn't it ?
James
USA - Monday, May 19, 2003 at 23:38:17 (EDT)

Baseball Cups > Here's a tip I have learned (obviously from the guys) from teaching karate.Wear the cup over the underwear, not under them. It's much less irritating to the family jewels. Get a cup with a jock strap attached. When I used to teach > kids karate, they have smaller sized ones, so check out a martial arts supplier if all else fails. Good luck. Go get em' slugger!
Sharon
USA - Monday, May 19, 2003 at 14:06:09 (EDT)

Beatle Birthday

belated but heart-felt best wish for your 64th!!That couch is a real Babe magnet-trade my 500SL for it!!
Marsh
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Beatle Birthday

Happy birthday! Liked your commentary about your 64th birthday. I hope I'll be playful and have grandkids at 64 to enjoy life with. Thanks for sharing your rituals (buried placentas and trees). I tell people I want to be cremated and wish I could have a celebration like you mentioned in your book "The Dancing Healers" with all of the woman's
belongings thrown in and then pieces of her would be scattered out from the bonfire. I get your weekly newsletter, and especially liked this week's.
Cindy
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Shock and Awe

This war was about protecting our U.S.A. and the rest of the world from terrorism. My daughter was in the North tower when the plane hit. Perhaps you feel the right thing to do is sit back and let the world fear these terrorists. The leader has abused people for many years. He has wiped out many families because they went against him. The people of that nation did try and failed to fight for their freedom. Perhaps you need to have a family member in a 9/11 type situation before you would appreciate what this
war really was about.

Jo
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Shock and Awe

This may be the best weekly byte yet.

Sue
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Shock and Awe

the story of the Exodus was the original "Shock and Awe" war story.
1. Wow, I wasn't aware the Exodus was a war story.

These two wars .
2. See #1

Exodus was a story where the oppressed themselves rose up to make their freedom happen.

3. Hmm, Don't remember the Israelites rising up. Just God, through Moses, pushing them into freedom. Maybe he is implying that through their prayers they rose up. They may have wanted to be free, but it was God who allowed them to escape, through the miracles He accomplished.

The Iraqi Freedom story was one of freedom bestowed, a gift
given. To bestow freedom emphasizes only the power of the giver to be able
to give it and the neediness of the recipient in having to accept it this
way. History has reinforced the idea that freedom can't be given. To be
believed, freedom must be taken, otherwise it's predicated on inequality.

4. Wow, if you follow that logic, the Civil War was a fruitless endeavor .

Is it any wonder the Moslem world questions our motives in this war? Did we
free the enslaved Iraqis as a tribute to our democratic ideals or did we
have some other agenda? Were we motivated by ego and power, trying to
impose our political, economic and even religious worldviews on these "poor
souls"?

5. This ascribes to the "Hate America first" theory of world politics. In this theory the corporate "we" must have a hidden agenda beyond that which is stated. Ergo we can't be trusted in any conflict. Better that we allowed Sadam Hussein and his regime to flourish and continue to brutalize his own citizens and other nations than impose our political, economic and yes even religous worldviews on those "poor souls".

Let us not become so captivated by our arrogance lest we forget that all nations fall, who stand in awe of themselves.
6. Let's name a few modern ones. Nazi Germany, The Soviet Union, East Germany, Sadam Hussein's Iraq. Seems like those are some pretty evil examples there. Wouldn't you say there were a few other reasons for the collapse of those countries?

Ron
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Shock and Awe

Man, you got a ton of reaction to this weeks byte.
You are right on and people want to stay asleep. Some folk got awakened by your byte. They don't like being bitten or awake.
Keep up with the "Unconscious to Consciousness Movement." I'm with you all the way.

Charlee
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Shock and Awe

This was probably your worst byte. Total nonsense with minimal reality and poor real history. I'm sure you expect better from yourself.

Russ
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Shock and Awe

I've heard you speak in the past and therefore I know your heart is in the right place; and when it comes to the mind-body connection your ideas are insightful and ahead of their time. That being said, once again, as in the past, you've missed the political point. This Iraqi "freedom" war had little to do with freedom or even (WMD) weapons of mass destruction per se.
This war was about 9/11-- plain and simple. Since that infamous date in our history, our military's job is to stop terrorism at its roots and Sadam Hussein was one of the primary sower of those seeds of terrorism. He (and
unfortunately not alone) help breed, encourage and finance the terrorists. Parenthetically, it may not be soon, but some time in the near future we will happen on more than a little pile of WMD just like we're happening on shallow, mass graves and remains of people who didn't agree with the Iraqi gov't. With all due respect, my advice to you is to stick to medicine which you know a lot better than politics.

Tedd
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Shock and Awe

This week's "byte" (Shock and Awe) is extremely well written. I hope you have sent this message to your political leaders, including the President.

Pamela
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Shock and Awe

Didn't God Himself decide that Israel needed to be free(based on the outcry of the people), send his leader, Moses, to deliver the message and then rain terror upon the Egyptian in the form of plagues to "soften" the heart of
Pharaoh, thus establishing the traveling nation of Israel? (They didn't take possession of the land for 40 years due to lack of faith, but that is another story.) I believe that this is a closer summation of the Passover events than is presented in your article. How would this change your mind about "giving" the Iraqi's freedom to self govern? Were we motivated by power or fear? Fear of the loss of security that a world run by thugs would suggest or fear of loss of power? Perhaps both.

I agree that we should be careful of arrogance, we are a young nation and many who have come before have failed. Thanks for your thought provoking article.
Mike
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Shock and Awe

This one is particularly good and I have been comforted over the past weeks by your articulate pieces on this so called "war". I am presently reading Queen Noor's book and find it fascinating to get the Moslem view of world events.

Cheryl
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Shock and Awe

arrogance like all the other seven deadly sins is indeed the path to self destruction, and I have followed all your observations in the recent events of this war. God is great, and man has much to learn.Interpretation of God's laws will be an eternal struggle for humanity, but we can only hope given enough time on this earth eventually people will open their eyes, and understand what God intended all along.
You are a good man, and the world needs many more messengers to bring the truth to all nations. Take care Carl, and don't give up on your mission to find the lost, and return the world to a better place.

James
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Shock and Awe

This week's "byte" (Shock and Awe) is extremely well written. I hope you have sent this message to your political leaders, including the President.

Pamela
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Shock and Awe

I am enjoying your SchlagBytes immensely. On the radio this morning, I heard a story and immediately thought, "I wonder what perspective a SchlagByte about this might take?" That in iteself, caused me to think, "Well, what do I think about this?" which was a helpful question. So thank you for that.

However, I still would like to read your opinions on it as well. What am I referring to? The Bush Administration has changed the calculus used to compute the value of a human life when making economic decisions about environmental protection. It used to be that each human life had the same positive value when it came to totalling the economic benefits when balanced against the costs of cleaning up or protecting the environment from dangerous toxins. It's the old economic theory that you "clean up" to the point where the marginal benefits equal the marginal costs. Now, as a person ages, and analysts surmise that his/her earning power (and tax-paying potential) decreases and his/her "social service cost" increases, a person's life itself becomes less valuable. Saving the life of a 45-year-old is more beneficial to society than saving the life of a 65-year-old. The logic, presumably, is that the cost of protecting older people rises and their value to society decreases.

Of course this is all based on an economic contribution (as opposed to values such as family stability or collective wisdom), but I couldn't help but wonder if Busher's shouldn't also handicap with increased years those possessors of very high incomes who are now receiving tax cut benefits (and thus are not "paying their way" proportionally).

Thank you again for triggering my thoughts every Monday morning,

Nancy
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Shock and Awe

Saddam has tortured and killed these people for years. It had become a way of life to them.........they knew no better. Don't question our motives...........thank God that Bush had the courage to free these people. They don't want freedom? Well, they got it anyway. I wonder about the way you are thinking.

Queen
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Cure to Kill

It is seldom that I disagree with your statements or insights. However, on this note we are at polar opposites. Medical Doctors take and oath to do no harm, save and protect etc. By prescribing medications that make a human being sane and therefore humane the doctors are doing exactly what they set out to do by that oath. It is their responsibility to bring the person to their fullest functioning level - their highest good. And that's that! It is not their job to concern themselves with the punnishment the person will receive based on a criminal act they are convicted of doing. Now, if the doctor wants to get politically involved I would highly recommend that he petition the courts or congress or whomever.

Barb
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Bat Cave

You may perhaps be the first travel essayist/psychiatrist-------reading your travelogues is both inspirational and a non-threatening way to get a spiritual dose of mind/body meds. The Bat Cave Wisdom story is.........funnier than shit.....

Lee
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Bat Cave

I think your plan is a good one for compiling and distributing the "best of" selections.
Please don't copyright this scheme, because I want to plagiarize it. It would be great for me, and would be helpful to others doing grassroots email bulletins, if you put together an easy "how to" piece, noting what software, special website coding etc. you use to set this up.

I get alot of good out of Schlag Bites. Thanks for your excellent, generous and humane work.

Al Salaam Alaikum. Shalom. Namaste. Peace.

David
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Bat Cave

Your bytes are GREAT. Having a collection of the all time greats would be wonderful. I actually have to give my vote to todays, "Bat Cave Wisdom." I also love all the pictures, particulary those of the Burning Man Festival and your tree house escapades. We just recently vacationed in the beautiful country of New Mexico. We now share your love of the southwest and the magic and power of being among our native americans. Don't ever stop writing. My weeks and my life would be the worse for it, as I imagine millions of others would also be.

Karen
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Bat Cave

,I loved the byte! That was a great analogy for life and the earth
Greg
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Bat Cave

I loved it! It will be read to our next homeowners association
meeting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Tom
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Bat Cave

I loved the story of "Bat Cave Wisdom". It is simple and true. A keeper!

Alice
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Cure to Kill

This is one that you and I and the Supreme Court disagree on. Once a person takes a life I see no reason to protect them, especially if they are "cured" and released into society again. Why should we put them in jail for life and
care for them as if they were loved ones. Remember the recent case where an inmate was given an organ that was desperately needed by many good honest citizens.

I will not debate this with you as I have very strong convictions about people that hack, stab, shoot, throttle, etc., another individual.

I must be a decedent of that famous "hanging" judge in the old west. I enjoy your efforts.

Irwin
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Cure to Kill

I am not an attorney, but if an individual is psychotic when they commit a crime, how could they be held liable and executed when medicated after the fact? The whole scenario makes no sense.

Red
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Cure to Kill

I don't follow your logic on this one...

The hardest truth to learn is the truth about oneself. To learn and understand that you are a murderer would be painful indeed, and if it led to death by execution it would be all the more painful. Nonetheless - that
path is the path to ultimate healing, and must be followed. To stay in a psychotic state to avoid the penalties of one's actions is to refuse to move
towards wellness. How could a psychiatrist or doctor take the position that this is the better option?

Wade
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Communal PTSD

Is it a simple question of repression vs. processing? Or does it have to do with the intent and purpose of the processing/expression?

My belief is that God's greatest gift is the ability to choose - and at its most stripped-down bare-bones level this choice is, at a minimum, a choice of how we react to something internally. How we interpret it, whether in a
repressed or expressed state.

Wade
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Cure to Kill

This same issue was an episode on THE PRACTICE, Sunday, April 13, 2003. The judge ruled decision maker to administer meds or not to the client/patient's lawyer. In this instance, the drama surrounding the pain and suffering of the patient "in the moment" had the lawyer insist on
medication....episode ending with the realization and terror that....the lawyer had just killed her client.

It rendered the Dr's as powerless in that they had to follow the directive of the law!! The breath of what is being covered up under the cloak of "the best interest of, patriotism, liberty, justice, democracy" is overwhelming and
sickening. I don't have any answers. But, my brain formulates more and more questions around any issue.

This byte has contributed to my consciousness.

Charlee
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Cure to Kill

there is no government on earth that has a monopoly on morality, and there is nothing to keep this country from becoming the next Rome in the 21st century, unless people such as yourself bring these atrocities to the public's attention.

James
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Restoring the Spirit

Your words help me realize that great joy can be felt and enjoyed even when other parts of our lives are not working as well as they should. It is an insight that I hope can be learned by those of us who see only one fragment of what is going on at a time. I hope it is a learned skill rather that a genetic one.
Jess
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Restoring the Spirit

After reading, viewing the photos, and thoroughly empathizing with your escape entitled, "Restoring the Spirit", April 14, 2003, I would like to share a quote sent to me today by #1 daughter who lives near Boston.
"Naturally, the common people don't want war, but after all, it is the leaders of a country who determine the policy, and it is always a simple matter to drag the people along whether it is a democracy, or a fascist
dictatorship, or a parliament, or a communist dictatorship. Voice or no voice, the people can always be brought to the bidding of the leaders. That is easy. All you have to do is to tell them they are being attacked, and denounce the pacifists for lack of patriotism and exposing the country to
danger. It works the same in every country."
Hermann Goering, 1939

Julie
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Communal PTSD

I could not agree with you more regarding communal PTSD. I am just now beginning to apply for my psychiatry residency and as such am looking at my patients in a whole new way. What an overwhelming epidemic of PTSD all of whom could benefit from some restoration of the spirit. I
so look forward to working more with these souls and to be a part of their healing process.

Jeff
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Restoring the Spirit

Sounds a lot like the "Be still and know that I am God" experience Doc. Sometimes our spirits need to get away from the craziness. Get away from this running rampant world that distorts our vision, and reacquaint ourselves with what "normal" really is, what "peaceful" really feels like, and see the true definition of "beauty". Thank you for sharing....you helped remind me, just by sharing your story. Grateful as always,

Lori
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Restoring the Spirit

What a wonderful experience. I've been restoring my spirit in nature again over the past year. I grew up in nature and moved to the city to make my way in the "real" world. I didn't have the depth of reflection to realize how the natural world shaped my life until recently.

Experiencing nature with connection to being truly present in each and every moment fills me with peace and harmony. Living on natural time, in the present melts everything away and helps me reconnect to my inner core. This is the real news of the world.

Mark
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Restoring the Spirit

I appreciate your words and sharing of your life experience...

Lorraine
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PTSD

I read with interest the remarks you have written about PTSD. Please look into the research done by Karin Huffer, author of Legal Abuse Syndrome. Her research suggests that the court process itself is creating physical as well as behavioral dimensions of PTSD. The expressions, "that just blows my mind" is actually being documented in brain scans.

Our community health is affected by very simple dynamics. Diet, physical movement, and the failures of our institutions are all causing health challenges. The biological reactions when a threat is imminent, persistent,
and overpowering is electrical, biochemical and an attack upon our survival instincts at every level. In light of your emphasis upon spirituality, I am extremely disappointed. PTSD is serious, and life debilitating; I hope you will reconsider the brevity and levity of your remarks.

The teams at the Veterans Administration seem to have the most research as
well as a multidisciplinary approach to treatment. There are some fine
newsletters; generalizing is not only hazardous, but it feeds the denial
utilized by insurance companies. The implications of a lack of
understanding, sensitivity and cultural awareness increase the suffering.

Naida
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Restoring the Spirit

Your photo of the VW minibus brought back wonderful memories! Thanks for the Schlag Byte...I enjoy reading them.

Michele
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Restoring the Spirit

It appears that what happened to you is the same that happens to me when I am out in the woods. You take all the "detritus" accumulated in the human world with you into the bush and it graciously and gratuitously takes this from you replacing it with its own calm, peace and serenity.

You can sense this aura of calm about a person who has spent a lot of time in the woods.A similar thing happens with you when you enter a log cabin. The cabin may be ever so humble but you have an immediate feeling of calm and
peacefulness not to be found in a wood framed house. The reason, as far as I can determine, is that with the wood frame house, the boards used in its construction do not belong together since whole logs have been sawn up and
scattered all over the country with each board not necessarily coming from its mother log.

This feeling of agitation is not present in a log cabin since each log is whole and complete with all that originally belonged to the mother log still being there.

To my mind, this explains the "cathedral effect" of a log cabin and may also provide an insight into why a society living in wood framed homes have this fragmented, agitated and dis-eased feeling about them.

Ed
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Udder Tampering

As a graduate of Texas A&M's School of Agriculture, I thought your story about the cow fitters (or more specifically cow titters) was such a hoot(er). When I showed horses at youth fairs, my horse wore more shoe
polish, hair conditioner and hairspray than a prom queen. And to not get dirty and ruin the beauty treatments, the poor horse had to sleep in the garage, wearing knee socks and a make-shift hairnet to hold that perfect "do" of a tail in place. Yep, Good Friend, I can always count on you to moooove things right along during this time of angst about war. Thanks for a chuckle.

Kathy
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Udder Tampering

The female sex is not the only sex being enhanced. There is a product called neuticles. These were developed so that men would be more willing to have their male dogs neutered. Men don't want to have the external appearance changed from the neutering. With neuticles, the male dog appears intact even though he is neutered. There is a website to view these products. It is not for dogs only. There are a variety of sizes.

Lisa
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Udder Tampering

It gets worse . . . someone told me that the winning dog at the big Westminster dog show was later disqualified because it had plastic surgery on its face!

Gail
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Udder Tampering

This is udder nonsense!

Thanks for sending this one. It was good.

Elaine
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Udder Tampering

All amusement aside, I wonder if these injections affect the milk. And as consumers, is this yet another additive in the food chain that we need to worry about.

Fran
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PTSD

I might add that here in Boston there is a study being conducted, I think at MGH, where trauma victims are being given rather large doses of benzodiazepines at the time of their ER treatment and they are testing the theory that it will reduce the incidence of PTSD by preventing the
activation of the part of the brain that is the pathway to memory and hence prevent "reliving" the trauma.
Lyle
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PTSD

May I add something to the byte about PTSD. A lot of people are in a state of PTSD because of issues that are not so easy to repress. For example; chronically abused domestic partners, children abused over a long time, abject poverty, living in crime ridden areas, and of course war
veterans have energy systems that are in a state of shock. This state of energy is a detriment to their functionality and health in a very real way.
Repression of a one-time event like an accident or death may be more easily coped with by repression, but when the state of trauma has continued over a long time , the human energy body is caught in a more permanent state of shock. It is difficult for the person in this state to develop
psychologically and move into more optimum health when the human energy system is torn or frozen or in other state of disarray.
I agree that talk therapy is not the full answer. I find energy medicines, such as Rescue Remedy ( the flower essence formula for shock/trauma) and Brennan Healing Science, Jin Shin Jyutsu, acupuncture, acupressure and such modalities work on the energy system to repair damage
at energy and cellular level and bring back harmony and clarity.These therapies get under the radar of the mind that �just talks about the problem. � Art therapy can also help resolve the deeper conflicts that are beyond the �story. � But the actual energy system that has been disrupted needs healing.

Margaret
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Dying in Poverty

I appreciate your reprisal of Sheila Wessenbergs story..I saw it on the news. She is one of just many in this situation..where health issues end up draining the resources of the family. In my case it was an autistic child
that we could not get help sufficient in services or financial resources for his care. He was physically abused in the public school system and many of the so called "quote" and rote methods of providing for these children are antiquated and ineffective as far as providing them a safe place to emerge from their silent world.The minimum wage "aids" provided are inadequately trained and for most part unmotivated and uncommitted. I left my marketing consulting work in a familiar city to move to an unfamiliar one to provide not only financial assistance but the one on one care that my grandson needed. After five years, my daugther who believed not only in her love and
will to maintain a safe and loving place where he could progress was exhausted in everyway, in fact we both were. (She was providing for her three sons by working as a personal cook and caterer, in addition to the daily care of her super active son, and two other teenagers) Her angry
ex=husband was providing a minimum of support for his three sons. They are now in he and his new wife's care. Another emotionnally devastating blow for my daughter, since there answer follows the allopathic medical mode of "drugs" to cope with Jamie.I went through all my financial capital and ended up in debt and quite frankly unable to "pay the rent". As a former multiple home owner, I now regretfully reminience about the lost opportunities I had when I could have provided shelter for someone in such a situation. As I
attempt to relocate with no resources, but an amazing portfolio of "past" work.. with the inability to stay in one place long enough to get re-integrated into the community and workforce. Always seeking a place with
friends or family where one elegant older woman can rest and not be reduced to begging. I have found it difficult to believe that we in human life could not eliminate homelessness just by opening up our "second" and third rarely used homes to those who need a temporary lift back up. Or the fear which keeps us locked to the belief that if we share generously it will create our own financial demise. It is this that keeps us from opening our purses
except in a cursory manner..and that which also helps us experience in reality our own fears.I have found it so true, how often we cheat ourselves of the real blessings in helping our brothers and sisters who walk this
earth. We often observe from the outside and say.."Why doesn't that person "do" something to help themselves". Sometimes it takes amazing creative power just to find the next meal or place to sleep. Until you have walked
in those shoes, you cannot judge. Thanks for letting me vent... As a side note I have a request, If you know anyone in Santa Fe, N.M. with a second home that would be willing to share it for a few months in exchange for
keeping it secure and clean..please let me know, I have impeccable references..but no money.. Blessings

Lara
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Dying in Poverty

Here is Sheila Wessenberg's mailing address, for those of you who've asked.

208 Park Meadow Way

Coppell ,Texas 75019

Dr.H
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Dying in Poverty

I called Sheila after a Schlagbyte reader sent me her address and # just to confirm her identity and left a message on her machine. This is her response

yes! you are correct!

i am the one and only... well, i am not to sure of that now, all the crazies across this wonderful country of ours want tips on panhandling from me!

one woman is actually angry with me because i won't go out to the corner and beg anymore so she can see me. it amazes me that the concept of a woman on a street corner can cause such a national fuss.

i would love to speak with you. i have been to your website and so, i know a wee bit about you. i agreed to do the piece in the new york times because i found myself in a situation i never before thought i would...... and i know it can happen to anyone.

i guess you have my/our phone # and i expect to be home the rest of the day. if you are in phoenix, you are an hour earlier than us and at 2:30 i will pick up my kids from school. we will be back at 3pm.

thank you for your caring. i do appreciate hearing from you and like i said....i would love to speak with you.

Sheila
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Mandatory Health Not War

I want to begin by saying that I am in favor of a system that does not leave anyone without the opportunity to receive the necessary medical care they require. I do not profess to know how this kind of system can best be implemented, but to play medical care against this war seems to me to be a mixed metaphor.

I am not happy that we are at war and people are dying, but I think that some historical perspective may be useful here. Following WW1 Germany had certain restrictions placed on it by the treaty. Had America and the World enforced these provisions, I believe that the problablity that Hitler would have succeed in building the Third Reich would have been slim. The world imposed restrictions on Saddam Hussein follow the Gulf War that he never lived up to. Are we to continue to let these kinds of tyrants ignore the international laws? Do we need another 911 to determine that this tyranical madman has to go? The human rights violations of this regime are abhorent. I heard an interview of a American Christian Missionary recently returned from Iraq. He said he went there on a peaceful mission. He spent three weeks inside Iraq. He was able to do this because he is a native of India and did not stand out as an outsider. After seeing what he saw, he was convinced that the world and the Iraq people needed to be rid of Hussein. One story he told was about a father who had spoken out against the government. His punishment was to watch his 12 year old son stoned to death. There were multiple other insidents of such brutality. What kind of diplomacy can stop this? He also told of the ordinary people praying for the end of Hussein. No one wants to be fighting in Iraq, but there comes a time when the bully needs to be put in his place....six feet under.

Peace to all,

Steven
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Dying in Poverty

In response to your Schlagbyte, the zip code for Coppell, TX is 76019. I live nearby and will be sending something for her can. Thanks for sharing the info.

Carol
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Dying in Poverty

A powerful and very sad story and wonderful suggested action...

Did a search and came up with this...but don't know if it is still good...If
you find it is, please let me know and I will send along a little via pay
pal.

Robert Sheila Wessenberg
620 N Coppell Rd
Coppell, TX 75019

Jeff
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I love the parachute and also wish there were more making tree- houses and none delivering the tools of war. On Sunday, before the candlelight vigil for peace, I spent the day planting pansies. I told my husband that day, if everyone were spending the day planting pansies, we wouldn't be going to war. Spending the day equiping tree houses with parachutes qualifies as a war stopping activity as well. Bless you and your beautiful grandchildren. Here's to peace on earth.

Mary
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Parachute

You are absolutely crazy!

You are nuts!!

You are not only out of the box, you are up a tree!!!

You ARE, of course, a psychiatrist. That explains some of it...

A Harvard trained psychiatrist!! That explain more of it...

At the top of your class and chief resident! That explain even more of
it...

I have a good friend named Stacy who is also Harvard trained. She got out
of there before she lost her mind, went nuts, reverted back to her childhood
and moved into a tree.

A highly intelligent, yes brilliant man, steeped in being at the
top-of-his-class within the best academia in America. A man with a huge
vocabulary, incredibly active mind, steeped in many cultures, traditions and
diversities of medicine and living.

Lord have mercy....

What should I expect?

Did I mention that you are uniquely refreshing, interesting and a beautiful
human being?? Controversial and out-of-the-box for sure...but that's OK.
The world needs "crazy" people like you.

I often think of how I surprised you and our very interesting, stimulating
discussion on plane when you were on your way to spend a week with Patch
Adams.

Dan
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Parachute

I read this week article and got tears.What a beautiful project for you and the family. Those grandchildren are
soooo blessed to have a grandpa that shows them so much love. You can see the love in their eyes.
Thank you so much for sharing this story especially! I enjoy all of your articles and look forward to them each week. Thank you!

Sharon
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Parachute

Hey Doc - maybe Frodo and companions could use some camo netting - available at most Walmarts in the hunting section and sold by the foot to cover the last stronghold of Helm's Deep - a lot less sightly and so unobtrusive that even the Queen of Mordor might tend to overlook it!

Greg
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Parachute

Doc, you can take solace in knowing that you help pack the parachutes of many a weary traveler in this world with your uplifting, thought-provoking,and inspirational messages. People call upon their parachutes every day for survival. Physical ones, mental ones, emotional ones and spiritual
ones. Thanks for helping pack my parachute today Doc, and reminding me I'm not flying solo.....happy landing!

Lori
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What's Hot..

is it not scary, that those who refer to America's people as the son's of Satan, might actually have something to say ? We have met the enemy, and they is US,.........a simple phrase from the cartoon strip " Pogo " by Walt Kelly.
Is there anyone besides myself, who sees a correlation between the concerns of the United States, and what the Roman Empire brought down upon themselves during their own days of glory ? The soul, like software cannot be looked at, but only observed through it's results. Doing good works, uplifting others, being an example of inspiration.
The other obvious result of a soul, is one who destroys others, insights anger, vanity, and contempt.Most of these new television programs have an obvious audience of young
viewers, who would naturally focus on pleasure, and a live for the moment attitude.
If any of these people lived long enough to discover how their own bodies cannot last as they would like, it might be too little, too late, for any of them to realize all the things they will not be taking with them into the next world, such as their bodies, as well as their wealth, or anything else that amused them.We must give them time enough, to understand, or hope the majority discover
for themselves, that the things that really matter will last long beyond the life time of a television program
James
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What's Hot..

Is your message that we as a society are too vain or Restylane is a better option than Botox? "Our culture is preoccupied with things superficial and material perfection; is there any wonder why so many nations in the world question our priorities?" - this should have been the prevailing message but then you took a strange turn. ?? What's up?

Steve
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What's Hot..

Right on! (We are seeing the same worship of mere appearance in allowing the Bush administration's eroding of constitutional rights for the sake of the immediate illusion that we can continue to be unresponsive to the world and to our own voices of dissent forever!)
Meanwhile, the image of the body is being strip-mined for its immediate advertising and entertainment riches at the expense of its deep holiness.
Tim
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What's Hot..

As a perioperative nurse, and a devout Catholic, I loved your final sentence! Such simple wisdom! Wish more people felt the love of God through parents, friends and family - making so much of this superficial culture obselete.
Heard you speak a few years ago and continue to enjoy your writing, despite disagreeing at times with some concllusions.The love within you as you describe familly, children, grandchildren and your enviroment is a privelege to share. I'm thankful for the gifts you give so freely to us through your writing.

Laura
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What's Hot

Your weekly "SchlagBytes" always capture my interest. This week's feature: "What's Hot, What's Not," is a sad commentary on our culture and its obsession with superficiality. No wonder have an epidemic of women "dying to be thin," rather than living to be healthy and whole. Unfortunately, we are spreading this cultural virus throughout the world through our cinema and television programs. I pray that enough enlightened souls will shift the balance so that we can reverse this downward spiral before we destroy our entire planet.

Keep speaking your truth, God knows, we need it.

Annemarie
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What's Hot

You're right Dr. H. Vanity, mankind's Achilles heal .
Lori
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E K-R

Thanks for this insightful story. What a magnificent gift
this wise lady is to us all. You must cherish her friendship.If only more people could realize that love is a necessity of life.I appreciate you. Keep on making a positive difference in our world.

Laura
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Marching

Great report. Thanks. And glad "granny" did not get carried off to the Bastile!
I have received others...one report on the march on the
Washington Mall, one that was blocked no matter what I tried (Portland,Oregon), & one from near London (Tony Blair is having his problems,too.)E-MAIL has surely made a big difference in pressures from the populace!
Maybe there's hope for "the common man" to exert influence on the bureaucracy after all!!!????
One note......when I followed instructions to pull up the photos, the following notice popped up on my screen, so I never got to see them. I have received a other interferences with transmissions of info on
the marches, so I thought you might find this reaction interesting & consider checking it out.

Julie
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E K-R

How absolutely wonderful to see the picture of Elisabeth Kubler-Ross! In 1980 while caring for a family member who was dealing with cancer, I read her book: Live Until You Say Goodbye. I knew then that if there was a way - I must meet Elisabeth. I read many more of her books, I followed
her career and speaking schedule, subscribed to the Shanti Nilaya newsletter, followed her progress in Virginia and California and because of her influence, I was able to help start our local Hospice Program here in my little Connecticut town. Then in the early 80's I was invited to hear Elisabeth address a gathering of Health Care and Hospice workers at Avery Point, Groton, Connecticut. It was my hope to meet her - to say thank you! I sat in the audience and listened to her tell the story of her "little black bunny." To my surprise -tears came instantly! It was a most wonderful, spiritual experience.

After her address, I did meet her, was able to thank her, and have her autograph in my copy of Imitation of Christ. When I left, I purchased all of her tapes, and more books and have shared them over these years with friends and family.

In 1983 both my parents were diagnosed with cancer. I became the primary care person.They became our first two Hospice patients in the Hospice we had just started. I cared for them in their home, where they were able to participate somewhat in daily life up until they "said goodbye" (father in 9/83 - mother 2/84) surrounded by familiar sights and sounds of the farm they had loved for 40 years. In 1985 we held a successful benefit in their memory with Dr. Bernie Siegle and others for Hospice.

Thank you, Elisabeth! I think of you and pray for you often.
Yes - I, too, think Susan Sarandon is the perfect person for your movie! You have shared the gift of your life and your work with so many. The mark you made on my heart in the 80's - I continue to share - hopefully as a "cherubini." And I will always ponder: "Does the caterpillar know he's a butterfly?"

Thank you "healingdoc" for telling us about your friend and sharing your picture.

Jane
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EK-R

I enjoyed your story about and with Ms. Kubler-Ross. I met her in the early '70s, and have always been extremely impressed with her knowledge and compassion. I am saddened to hear that she is not healthy, but glad to hear that she hasn't lost her wit.

Katy
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EK-R

It was just over a year ago that I went to visit with EKR. I
took along some drawings that I had made years ago in the "darkroom" in Escondido. (I was given permission) I gave her a portrait of Mario, (one of her favorite spooks) which made her face light up. After an hour or so of reminiscing I asked her if there was anything I could get for her. She said "A good meatloaf and cabbage dinner". I was on my way back to L.A. and couldn't oblige. I certainly hope someone has gotten her this dinner.

San
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Hail Columbia

I agree with his view whole heartedly. Alot of people said to me Oh that is so sad about the Columbia isn't it? Since I am "speaking my truth" I had to say that No it did not make me sad. I am sorry for the loss that their families feel but those astronauts died doing something exciting,
important and exhilirating that they felt passionate about. Imagine their thrill when they heard that they were selected for the mission. They understood the risks. They went for the ride of their loves. When they died they felt
no pain.I felt sadness on Monday when someone found yet another newborn in a Phoenix dumpster.

Van
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Hail Columbia

I certainly believe in the right to free speech but i really resent people like Jessica Lange, Susan Sarandon, and the likes of Hollywood that use their stature of stardom to go out and disgrace this country by saying they
despise Bush. I'm not really a "Bushee" but there was an English statesman who said, "all it takes for evil to prevail, is a few good men standing around doing
nothing". Since the US is the most powerful nation in the world, it is unfortunate, but we MUST police the rest of the world. I believe people have forgotten that when Churchill wanted to go after Hitler, he too, stood alone.

This is not an easy call. I suppose we could wait for Saddam Hussein to get a nuclear bomb into NYC in a suitcase, that would make the call much easier.
I once heard you must sacrifice a few to save the whole. Tragic but true.

Linda
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Hail Columbia

I wonder if anyone has bothered to point out that a permit for these marches and protests already exists -- in theFirst Amendment.

Bruce
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Hail Columbia

Do you know about the peace march here in Phoenix next Saturday at
Patriots
Park - starting at 10am? I don't know if anyone has gotten a permit
yet but
I hope that we all are seen here in AZ.
Thanks for your wonderful words each month. I look forward to hearing
you!

Wendy
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Rolling Stones

The newsletter was enjoyable, helpful and entertaining in the past, butI do not find it that way anymore.
Perhaps my life seems much too mundane in comparision with the Hammershlag family.
Thank you for your past service and encouragement.

Jim
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Penile Wars and Stones

Hi Dr. Carl: I just had to reply to your "penis" article...........I am an 83 year old lady who loves what you write, and I , too, get Emails about enlarging " my penis" along with a lot of other items like contacting
young college girls, etc, etc. etc.(yuck!) I almost fell off my computer chair laughing when I read your article this evening, I keep trying to get out
of the ones that I get but have learned that it doesn't do to tell them to remove your name.....seems like that just brings about more of the same.......So, keep us laughing, Healing Doc.........we really are amused!
PS. And your evening at the Rolling Stones concert is priceless. I certainly want to remain on your mailing list.

83
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Rolling Stones

I cringed as I read your byte about the Rolling Stones concert. At one point I had to leave the computer because I felt so bad for your son-in-law. I could I feel his pain. I thought to myself, man Dr. can be cruel. After reading the entire byte I found it to be entertaining.
As I was writing you I thought that your son-in-law probably had this coming...I know those boys torture you sometimes. Pay back is a bitch. If they ever start to really get out of hand you could always tell them you are going to attach their photos to your bytes that refer to them. Now that is an idea...I can just imagine the fear that that would instill in them.

Harry
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Rolling Stones and Penile Wars

I have been receiving your vunderfull titbits for a couple of years now. I look forward to your insights of the human experience every week and quite frequently forward them on to others who thank me immeasureably.

I have never been to a Rolling Stones concert although I did have a drink beside Mick Jagger once at the local, in London, some 35 years ago. They are to play here very soon but you have saved me the price of a ticket or two by your vunderfully evocative description. Your daughter did just I have done on occasion and it gives the memory just that extra bit of zing.

Your second article again shows what "lengths" us humans will go to to avoid standing in front of the mirror with all our clothes discarded.

Thanks for the memories.

Colin
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Penile Wars

As usual, I love the way you entertain us and make us think deeply at the same time. In your last sentence you describe unseen weapons. Whether in the Bush or Clinton administrations, if the president, secretary of state and
secretary of defense declare unequivocally that a country has a weapon, I will believe them and consider the weapon seen.

Don
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X-Box

You just have to know that I was LOL as I read...I do not play...I crashed the motorcycle guys on the PS2 and they say OOF! as they are smashed against the railing...I was then talked into the watersports game where they ride jet ski's...My son said, "this one is easier". HA! The generation that gave birth to these children is not meant to play these games...The speed at which they travel also gives me motion sickness. I know that the games themselves have given my son a sense of victory and he and his buds play...I stay away unless I am asked to watch as he repeats a victory for me to be impressed by. I am impressed..it takes a great deal of talent and dexterity to play these "kids" games. You are not alone Dr. H

Jocelyn
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X-Box

As regards the X-Box, I think we all have on some level similar feelings. That said, it depends on the child and parental involvement. The only game my 10 year old son has is a snowboard race game and he's wanting a football game. Sports are the only games he'll get from us. Further, since he was very involved in a book when he got the X-Box, he'd wake up in the morning, turn on his reading lamp and read for 30 minutes before school. He'd read when he got home at night. IN between he does his homework, plays chess, and participates in whatever team sports are in season.
In the old days all of us remember going outside on our own after school to play with friends, some of whom lived several streets away, and coming home at dinner time. Those times don't exist anymore.
Video games themselves are not inherently bad. Some indeed are way over the top in terms of their violent nature, but very few 10 year-old children are taking themselves to the store and buying themselves a viloent $40-50 game. Some of these games are great fun and on the surface seem harmless.
I'm somewhat in Carl's corner...I can't figure the damn things out to be able to play so my son simply won't play with me anymore. He's content to let me watch him.

Harley
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X-Box

Although I also have slowing reflexes and cannot attempt to keep up with nine-year-olds playing video games, I lament about something else concerning x-boxes and the like.
They steal uncountable numbers of hours away from activities more beneficial sports, exploring, reading, art, music-making, writing stories, telling stories, creative play, etc.). Although video games seem active, they are
actually a very passive, reactive endeavor. The game stimulates; the kid responds.

There is no question that gamers develop excellent reflexes...and even some terrific strategic thinking skills, but the overall result is mind-deadening. In addition, almost all these games are built around
violence and attack/defense, with the unrealistic capability for the player to have innumerable lives and suffer no consequences for ones mistakes and
cruelties.

I won't have one in my house.

Steve
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Aloha Spirit

This article is about why we return to the north shore of Kauai every year
Cary
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Aloha Spirit

There are still places and people who also live this type of "Sharing" lifestyle everyday. Sometimes in the midst of the busyness of the world we live in, we miss that. When my Father passed away a couple of years ago, along the long drive to the cemetery (which was in a very rural area) my "City Raised" children noticed people in the country wave to passersby. They loved the idea of that, and when we returned home (to the big city), they started doing it to
cars and people that passed by our house whenever they were out in the yard.
They're remarkable little boys. They say hello to joggers, walkers, and hold the door for the elderly and the young. They still say Thank you and Please, and give so much more than they take. When I sit back and look at them, I see a wonderful hope for the future, because many of their friends
are just like them!
The "Sharing" lifestyle only takes one person's actions to get the ball rolling.....so I lean over and say to you Dr. H. Aloha! You are a true vision of "Sharing." Thanks for keeping the ball rolling, and the rest of us "breathing."

Lori
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Aloha Spirit

I was right there with ya in those wonderful pix. After living on Kaua'i nine years, I got to know it pretty well. Koke'e is a magical place indeed.I remember the many double rainbows appearing through the mist and gathering maile for the lei's. I could feel the moist air through the photos.

You are right, the word "Aloha" has many special meanings that most tourists do not hear. In the Hawaiian language there is always a hidden meaning within each word. It was told to me that it is the spirit that lies within the word. And how it is used can effect how we live and how we die. Another meaning I learned regarding "Alo" is "I meet you face to face." So when joined with "ha" it means, "I greet you face to face with the Breath of all of Life, (past, present, and future.)" I revel in the inner story of each
word and the expanded consciousness it can bring.

While it is true that it would be wonderful for the "Aloha Spirit" to reach across nations, the healing is critical for the people of the Hawaiian nation first. As you know, they struggle under daily oppression and others coming in taking their land and basking in only the beauty, wanting to stay oblivious to the pain and struggle. Unfortunately, I have learned that on Kaua'i most local people fear outsiders coming in. Many years ago a local person told me that they are trying to find their own voice. It is only
recently that Hula and Chanting was openly allowed. Through Hula and the Chants the stories are told.

I say these things because I was asked to share what I have learned in the best way possible and to those who will listen. The beauty of the people is strong and ever present. And while Governmental oppression reigns supreme,
the Spirit is unconquerable. Kaua'i is the mother of all of the Islands. She is the first one to come up from the ocean. She is known as the Island of Challenge, not just the Garden Island. She is the only Island that was unable to be conquered by King Kamehameha.

Thank you for sharing the beauty of your journey and your visions. They touched my heart deeply.

Joyce
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Aloha Spirit

Thank you, Dr. for an explanation of what we have here that few ever seem to cpature in words... The Aloha Spirit -words we kama'ainas grew up hearing, which have meaning at many different levels for us all.

What an idea! To take what is SO right about his place, and share it with the world in a constructive way. Very glad you had a wonderful time here amongst us, and took the time to interpret your experiences and tell others about it.

Aloha.

LR
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Aloha Spirit

I too love the islands and had to think after reading your proposal of making Hawaii the capitol of the 21st Century, that if the Aloha Spirit is a fever, yours is raging....but wonderfully so! She is like an outrageously beautiful siren, beckoning the harried soul to come, drink, lay back, and dream.....ahhh. Cherishing the Aloha Spirit in Alaska,
Bonnie
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The Big Kahuna

yes, hanging on to your bitterness can be a very bad habit.
I speak from experience, and to be sure, your reminder will not be wasted on me this particular year. I realize the idea is to be ready for eternity when it comes, but in the
meantime, I hope to achieve a few more acts of joy before it's time to go.

Thanks for the helpful suggestion.

James
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Big Kahuna

Big Kahuna:
I went no where over the holidays.

I saw only a few people who happened to cross my path. Most encounters
where accidental and delightful.

I looked at the stars, I sat in front of a fire, I opened holiday cards, I
cried, I smiled, I laughed uproariously.

I read the bible, God Calling, and prayed. I journaled and played the wood
flute, beat drums, chanted to no one in particular, and listened to the
rain.

I made love to my adorable wife and we fell asleep in each others arms.

I went no where, but I was everywhere. It was paradise.
Aloha, Little Kahuna

Richard
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Big Kahuna

I loved this one!! I myself experienced Lomi-lomi massage with chanting on the Big Island in late 2001, but mine didn't last any 4 hours!! You are either very lucky, or were simply more "knotty" than me. At any rate, it's wonderful to find you writing this way, and I am all for baby spirits being let out to play!
Pam
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Big Kahuna

I think I enjoyed this Schlag Byte more than any that I have in a long time. God bless you and I hope you have a wonderful New Year!

Greg
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